爸爸姓“操”，不愿女儿跟自己姓，爷爷随口取名全家人赞不绝口

姓名不仅仅是几个汉字符号那么简单，它实际上是象征着一个人的身份。

A name is more than just a few Chinese characters. It is actually a symbol of a person's identity.

从一个人的姓名当中可以看出他的家庭素养、父母的期望等，一个好的名字对于孩子而言是珍贵的“礼物”。

From a person's name, we can see his family accomplishment and parents' expectations. A good name is a precious "gift" for children.

所以在给孩子取名字的时候，父母都是煞费苦心。

So when it comes to naming a child, parents take great pains.

爸爸姓“操”

爷爷取名令全家赞不绝口

有一个特殊的姓氏虽然能够让重名率降低，但实际上有其中有不少特殊的姓氏却不容易取名字。

Having a special surname can reduce the repetition rate, but there are actually a lot of special surnames that are not easy to name.

徐女士和丈夫在宝宝出生之前就开始为孩子的名字准备着，但因为丈夫姓“操”，所以他们思来想去也没想到一个满意的名字。

Ms Xu and her husband began to prepare for the baby's name before the birth, but because the husband's surname is "Cao", so they couldn't think of a satisfactory name.

孩子出生之后需要办出生证明，在思考了几天后，徐女士丈夫觉得自己的这个姓氏容易导致孩子被人笑话，于是他不愿女儿跟着自己姓。

After a few days of thinking about the need for a birth certificate, Xu's husband decided that his surname would make the child laugh, so he didn't want his daughter to take his surname.

在和家里人商量之后，孩子的爷爷却有些反对，而后他随后说到：“取个名字有什么难的，一出生就因为个名字令你们操心，我看就叫操心得了。”

After discussing with the family, the child's grandfather was somewhat opposed, and then he said: "What is so difficult to choose a name, since the birth of a name because you worry about, I think it is called worry."

而这个随口取出的名字却让全家人赞不绝口，因为这个名字书写简单，朗朗上口，而是还具有特别的寓意，于是全家人也一致决定就让孩子叫做“操心”。

The name was chosen out of the blue, but the whole family loved it because it was simple, catchy and had a special meaning. So the family decided to call the child "Worry".

哪些姓氏不容易取名字？

1、带有谐音的姓氏

1. Homophonic surnames

给孩子取名字时避开谐音是非常重要的，然而有一些姓氏本身就带有谐音，有些甚至含有一些侮辱性的谐音。

It is important to avoid homonyms when choosing a child's name, but some surnames are themselves homonyms, and some even contain insulting homonyms.

像是“朱”、“史”、“苟”等姓氏，这些姓氏的发音同“猪”、“屎”、“狗”相同，而这些谐音很多会让孩子成为别人的“笑柄”，所以这个时候很多父母就会为了姓氏而发愁。

Family names such as Zhu, Shi and Xun are pronounced the same as pig, shit and dog, and many of these homonyms make their children the butt of jokes, so many parents worry about their family names.

2、带有“歧义”的姓氏

2. "Ambiguous" last names

除了带有谐音，姓氏中带有“歧义”对于父母而言也是十分伤脑筋的，像是姓“死”、“罪”、“仇”等，这类姓氏还含有不吉利的色彩，所以看到这个姓氏，很多人都会想到与它有关的“负面含义”。

In addition to homonyms, "ambiguity" in a surname is also very nerve-wracking for parents, such as "death", "sin", "revenge", etc. Such surnames are also unlucky, so many people will think of the "negative connotation" associated with this surname.

像是有一个男子姓“骂”，父母给他取名为“建行”，结果他去银行面试时就因为“骂建行”的名字而被拒绝录用。

For example, there was a man named "Scolding" whose parents named him "Construction Bank", but he was rejected for "scolding Construction Bank" when he went to the bank for an interview.

姓氏特殊，如何给孩子取好名字

1、选择其他姓氏

1. Choose another last name

中国传统家庭中，孩子出生之后是随着父姓的。

In traditional Chinese families, children follow their father's surname when they are born.

但随着社会的进步，所以现在孩子随母姓也是常见的事情。

But with the progress of society, it is now common for children to take their mother's name.

所以如果父姓过于特殊时，父母也可以选择让孩子随母姓。

So if the father's name is too special, parents can also choose to give the child the mother's name.

像是女明星金莎在取名字时，就没有跟着爸爸姓“吴”，而是跟着妈妈姓“金”。

For example, actress Kim Sha chose her mother s surname Kim instead of her father s.

除此以外，有些父亲因为祖辈入赘等原因并没有跟随祖辈姓氏，所以在给孩子取名字的时候，也可以选择让孩子跟随祖辈的姓氏。

In addition, some fathers do not follow their grandparents' surnames because of the reasons such as the birth of their grandparents, so when giving their children names, they can also choose to let their children follow their grandparents' surnames.

有这样一个孩子被父母取名叫春秋战国。

There was a child named Spring and Autumn Warring States by his parents.

这个名字可能在全国范围内都没有重名的，的确是全国唯一。

There's probably no other name in the country, but it's the only one in the country.

会取这样的名字，是因为父亲非常喜欢春秋战国的历史。

He chose this name because his father loved the history of the Spring and Autumn period.

2、弱化姓氏

2. Weaken last names

当姓氏较为特殊时，父母在给孩子取名字时要更加重视孩子的名字，让孩子的名字更加出彩且富有韵味，从而弱化掉孩子的姓氏。

When the surname is special, parents should pay more attention to the child's name, so that the child's name is more colorful and full of charm, so as to weaken the child's surname.

这能够有效地让他人的注意力也放在孩子的名字上，降低孩子特殊姓氏对孩子的影响。

This effectively draws attention to the child's name and reduces the impact of the child's unique surname.

孩子的姓名是由姓氏和名字组成的，所以如果孩子的姓氏比较特别，容易导致孩子被人嘲笑或者是误会时，父母在给孩子取名字时就要更加谨慎的思考。

A child's name is made up of last name and first name, so if the child's last name is special, it is easy to cause the child to be laughed at or misunderstood, parents should think more carefully when choosing a child's name.

选择更适合的方式为孩子取名字，这样孩子在成长的过程中才不容易因为自己的名字而“困扰”。

Choose a more appropriate name for your child so that the child is less likely to be "haunted" by his or her name as they grow up.