一起学英语：“断奶”与羞耻感

这里的“断奶”特指年轻人走向自立，不再需要依靠父母了。

Weaning refers specifically to young people moving towards independence and no longer relying on their parents.

外国有个习惯，年轻人18周岁之后还依赖父母，就会有羞耻感。甚至有些法律直接规定：将孩子养到18周岁就不再有任何赡养义务。

Foreign countries have a habit, young people after 18 years of age still rely on their parents, there will be shame. Even some laws directly stipulate that raising a child until the age of 18 no longer has any maintenance obligations.

我国由于教育机制的设定，18岁才是上大学的年龄。所以，“断奶”一般都会延续到23岁，甚至到婚假年龄28岁。

Due to the establishment of educational mechanism ,18 years old is the age of college. So weaning generally lasts until age 23, or even until age 28.

啃老族的“断奶”时间就更没法说了，有的一辈子都在啃老。

Neet weaning time can not say more, some of the lifetime in the gnaw old.

啃老的人，多数都有羞耻感，也在尝试努力。但也有一些啃老族，没有一丁点羞耻感，把欺负自己的老人当成他的终极人生了。可笑、可叹、悲哀！

Most of the gnawed old people have shame and try hard. But there are some boomerang, without a little shame, bullying his old man as his ultimate life. Funny, lamentable, sad.