泪目｜C罗谈爱子夭折对家庭和生活的影响

把英文原版拷贝过来了，本人非英文专业，勉强翻译一下，跟大家分享。

C罗和女儿贝拉

Cristiano Ronaldo on losing his newborn baby earlier this year:

C罗谈起年初痛失爱子的事：

“It was probably the worst moment in my life since my father died. When you have a kid, you expect everything to be normal.”

这或许是我爸爸去世后我人生里最糟糕的时刻。当你有了孩子你当然希望他一切都好。

Cristiano Ronaldo says he keeps his son's ashes alongside those of his father.

C罗说他把夭折的儿子的骨灰和他爸爸的放在了一起。

"I talk with them all the time and they are on my side. You know they help me to be a better man, to be a better person, to be a better father."

我一直在跟我的孩子们交谈，他们一直支持我，是他们让我成为更好的男人，更好的人，更好的父亲。

"The kids start to say “Mom where is the other baby….’ …and after one week I say let’s be up front and let’s be honest with the kids, let’s say that, Ángel, which is his name, he go to the Heaven.”

孩子们会开始问“妈妈，还有一个宝宝哪里去了……”一周之后我决定向前看，告诉孩子们真相，我告诉他们说-安赫尔，那是他的名字，他去了天堂。

“It was difficult to understand what’s going on, in that period of our life. As you know, football carries on, there are many many competitions.”

在那段艰难的日子里我们都不知道该怎么办。你知道足球还要继续，而且比赛里总是充满了竞争。

C罗在比赛中

“I try to explain to family and close friends, I’ve never felt being happy and sad at the same moment. It’s hard to explain, so difficult. You don’t know if you should cry or smile.”

我试图跟我的家人和朋友们解释，我从来没有如此悲喜交加过。这很难说得清楚，很难，你不知道自己该哭还是该笑。

“The kids understand, we had shouts around the table and they say “Daddy I did this for Ángel” and they point to the sky. Which I like the most because he’s part of their lives.”

孩子们很懂事，当我们围坐在桌子边叽叽喳喳的时候他们会说“爸爸，这是我为安赫尔做的东西”并把手指向天空。这让我很感动因为他们把安赫尔当成了他们生命中的一部分。

“I am not gonna lie to my kids [about the passing of his child], I say the truth, which was a difficult process."

我并不打算对我的孩子们撒谎关于孩子去世的事情，我把真相说出来了，尽管很难。

“In some way, I became more of a father, more friendly with them; they become more close to their daddy, and me with Georgina as well.”

从另一个角度说，这件事让我变成了一个更好的父亲，我对孩子们更和善了，他们也跟爸爸更亲密了，也让我和乔治娜的心更贴近了

“In my case it was better. I became more friendly with Gio. I was of course a friend but I feel more love for her and for my kids and I start to see life with a different perspective.”

我们总是试图把事情想得更好。经过此事我感觉自己更加爱乔治娜和我的孩子们了。我学会了从另一个角度看待生活。

“We had the difficult moments but we said ‘Listen, we have more kids, we have one that was born, Bella that we have to be happy too.”

我们经历了艰难的时光但是我们会说：“听着，虽然痛失爱子，但是我们还有更多的孩子，我们还有贝拉，她健康地活下来了，而且我们一定要让她开心幸福”

C罗和家人们在一起

记住，这个男人就是在这样的情况下几天后就重返训练场，继续自己的足球事业‼️

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