三月流焱：人生总得拼一下，努力工作，认真生活

你起不了的早晨有人能起，你吃不了的苦有人能吃，总有人要问为什么不能是你。

You can't get up in the morning someone can get up, you can not eat the bitter someone can eat, always someone to ask why can't be you.

女孩子哪有什么退路，父母不是退路，结婚更不是退路，唯有手里的钱和能力才是最大底气，也唯有经济独立オ能灵魂挺拔。

Girls which have what retreat, parents are not retreat, marriage is not retreat, only the money and ability is the biggest confidence, and only economic independence can soul tall and straight.

做个温暖的人，有自己的喜好，有自己的原则，有自己的信仰，不急功近利，不浮夸轻薄，忍辱不惊，淡定安逸。

To be a warm person, you have their own preferences, you have their own principles, you have their own beliefs, you are not eager for quick success and instant benefits, you are not frivolous, you endure humiliation is not surprised, calm and comfortable.

没有人会对你的人生负责，所以又何必被别人影响，做自己喜欢的事，努力工作，认真生活！

No one will be responsible for your life, so why be influenced by others, do what you like, work hard, and live seriously!

人生总得拼一下，折腾对了改变人生，折腾错了大不了重头再来。

Life always have to fight, toss about the right to change life, toss about the wrong big deal again.