人生 择善而交 Choose the good in life

人生中，观众向来比朋友多。观众只会让人从视觉上舒服，朋友却会让你内心感动。

朋友不是天天见面，吃喝玩乐、相互吹捧；而是懂你，在精神上、灵魂上支持你、鼓励你、帮助你，在你有所不足时，指正你。

肤浅的人，交的是观众；上进的人，交的是朋友。真正的朋友，不是只给你掌声和赞美。

不要拒绝真诚的话，更不要拒绝一颗真诚的心。人与人，一场缘；心与心，一段交流。

朋友，需要的不是数量，而是质量，与有品位、人品好的人相处才能提高自己。

In life, there are always more audiences than friends. The audience will only make people visually comfortable, but friends will move your heart.

Friends don't meet every day, eat, drink and flatter each other; But understand you, support you spiritually and spiritually, encourage you, help you, and correct you when you have shortcomings.

Shallow people pay the audience; Aspiring people make friends. A true friend doesn't just give you applause and praise.

Don't refuse sincere words, let alone a sincere heart. Between people, a fate; Heart to heart, a communication.

Friends, what we need is not quantity, but quality. Only when we get along with people with good taste and character can we improve ourselves.

不是所有的人都能成为朋友，也不是所有的人都值得你付出真心或是发善心。做人不要斤斤计较，但要有原则。

他人有过，不究；于人有恩，不念。

来来往往皆是过客，相伴同行才是朋友。一生中的朋友有很多，而真正的朋友却没有几个。真正的朋友会有一份笃定不移的信任。

人要低头做事，更要睁眼看人，择真善人而交，择真君子而处。

人的一生，面临一个又一个的选择，包括选择朋友。

交朋友，只是彼此间选择友好，而不是选择某个依靠。朋友间相互支持没有错，但不能把朋友当成精神支柱。人间的缘，聚聚散散，能一直走下去的少之又少。

所以，无论何时，都要有一颗独立的心，假如有一天分开，也不会失去自我，找不到方向。有多少好朋友，从无话不谈，到无话可谈，不是情不在，而是经不起风雨。交友需真诚，对事需轻淡，处世需独立。

Not all people can become friends, and not all people deserve your sincerity or kindness. Don't be fussy, but be principled.

If someone else has a fault, don't investigate; You are kind to others and don't read it.

Come and go are passers-by, companion is a friend. There are many friends in life, but few real friends. A true friend will have a firm trust.

People should bow their heads to do things, but also open their eyes to see people, choose true and good people, and choose true gentlemen.

One's life is faced with one choice after another, including choosing friends.

Make friends, just choose to be friendly with each other, not to rely on each other. There is nothing wrong with mutual support among friends, but we can't take friends as spiritual pillars. The fate of the world, gathered and scattered, can go on very little.

Therefore, at any time, we should have an independent heart. If we separate one day, we will not lose ourselves and can't find the direction. How many good friends, from having nothing to talk about to having nothing to talk about, are not feeling absent, but can't stand the wind and rain. Friends need to be sincere, things need to be light, life needs to be independent.