历练与沉淀 Experience and precipitation

走着走着，青春张扬的模样，终究成了过往。
走过半生，看清了很多人，明白了很多事，前半生重在历炼，后半生重在沉淀，在变老的路上，我们渐渐学会了独处，懂得了沉默，享受一个人独处的孤独，有了不以物喜，不以己悲的淡定。
每个人都有生活的苦，谁也没有多余的精力在意他人的悲欢喜乐，所以很多时候不想再多倾诉了，很多事情也不愿再刻意为之了，学会独自承受，这是一种无奈，也是一种成长。
沉默是一个人的修行，是一个人的世界，安安静静，把烦恼归零，把是非清除，把繁杂简化，明白自己该何去何从。
人到中年，终会明白，真正的智慧，不是喋喋不休的争执，而是沉默寡言。
Walking, the appearance of youth publicity has finally become the past.
After half a lifetime, I saw a lot of people and understood a lot of things. The first half of my life focused on experience and the second half on precipitation. On the way to getting old, we gradually learned to be alone, understand silence, enjoy the solitude of being alone, and have the calm of not being happy with things and not being sad.
Everyone has the bitterness of life. No one has extra energy to care about the joys and sorrows of others, so many times they don't want to talk more. They don't want to do many things deliberately. They learn to bear it alone. This is a kind of helplessness and growth.
Silence is a person's practice and a person's world. Be quiet, return your troubles to zero, eliminate right and wrong, simplify the complexity, and understand where you should go.
In middle age, people will eventually understand that true wisdom is not a chattering argument, but silence.
懂你的人，不必多说；不懂你的人，说再多都是废话，学会隐忍，学会沉淀，学会接受，少一点耿耿于怀，少一点自寻烦恼，把日子过得轻松自在，何乐而不为呢？
Those who understand you need not say more; People who don't understand you, no matter how much they say, are nonsense. Learn to bear, learn to precipitate, learn to accept, less resent, less ask for trouble, and live a comfortable life. Why not?