淡定人从容 Calm people calm

岁月催人老。行走在喧嚣纷繁的尘世，经历着潮起潮落的人生，岁月不仅把沧桑刻在了人的脸上，更是刻在了人的心里。走过“恰同学少年，风华正茂”的意气风发的少年时代，也走过“当今之世，舍我其谁”的激情燃烧的青春年华，不经意间，就走到了世事不惑感知天命的人生秋天。

Years make people old. Walking in the noisy world and experiencing the ups and downs of life, years have engraved the vicissitudes not only on people's faces, but also in people's hearts. Through the vigorous youth of "just classmate youth, in full bloom", and through the passionate youth of "today's world, give up who I am", inadvertently, we have come to the autumn of life in which the world is not confused and the destiny is perceived.

虽然做不到心如止水波澜不惊，但人却变得厚重沉稳了许多，情绪中少了躁动，多了宁静，神态中少了桀傲，多了平和，生活中少了幻想，多了现实，做人少了棱角，多了浑圆，性格少了张扬，多了内敛。忽然间，就体会到了淡定才是人生的最佳境界。

Although you can't be calm and calm, people become a lot more thick and calm, less restless in emotion, more quiet, less arrogant in expression, more peace, less fantasy in life, more reality, less edges and corners, more rounded, less publicity and more introverted in character. Suddenly, I realized that calm is the best state of life.

当然，淡定不是无所追求，不是消极处世刻意放纵，也不是自我封闭，孤芳自赏。淡定的人更在意的是内心的丰盈，无论闲忙，都要学习知识，不求琴棋书画样样精通，也不求学富五车满腹经纶，只求丰富自己的内涵，多点儒雅，少点市侩，学会建立一个丰富高贵的精神世界，让自己的生活多些诗意和温馨。

You should strive hard for what you should get, and just look at and think about what you shouldn't get. Of course, being calm is not nothing to pursue, not passive and deliberate indulgence, nor self closure and self admiration. Calm people care more about their inner abundance. No matter whether they are busy or busy, they should learn knowledge. They don't want to be proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, nor study. They just want to enrich their own connotation, be more elegant and less Philistine, learn to build a rich and noble spiritual world, and make their life more poetic and warm.

花开无语，芳华烁烁；花落无言，余香阵阵。人生亦如这无言的花开花落，绽放凋零，一切都将在岁月中老去，重归于尘，重归于土。行走在这纷繁喧嚣的世间，虽然做不到看破红尘无悲无喜得失两忘，也要修炼一颗淡定从容的心，泰然面对日出日落，月缺月圆，活出自己的美好人生。

The flowers bloom speechless, and the flowers are shining; The flowers fall silent and the lingering fragrance bursts. Life is also like this wordless flower, blooming and withering. Everything will grow old in the years, return to the dust and return to the earth. Walking in this complicated and noisy world, although you can't see through the world of mortals without sorrow, joy, gain and loss, you should also cultivate a calm and calm heart, calmly face the sunrise and sunset, lack the full moon, and live your own beautiful life.