人不是不能有情绪，而是不能被情绪左右

人不是不能有情绪，而是不能被情绪左右。猛张飞，就是一个活生生的例子。

People can't have emotions, but can't be controlled by emotions. The brave Zhang Fei is a living example.

虽然人生有不少高光时刻，但是脾气暴躁却成了张飞毕生难以逾越的一道天堑。

Although there are many bright moments in life, Zhang Fei's temper has become an insurmountable chasm in his life.

暴打督邮，让刚刚安定下来的三兄弟，又不得不亡命天涯；鞭笞吕布的岳丈曹豹，让吕布反客为主占了徐州，平白无故失去了发展的良机。

The three brothers who had just settled down had to go to the end of the world because of the violent attack on the postmaster; Cao Bao, the father-in-law of Lv Bu who was flogged, let Lv Bu take over Xuzhou, and lost the opportunity for development without any reason.

还有最为致命的一次，听闻关羽被杀，他怒火攻心，报仇心切的他给两个手下范疆、张达布置了不可能完成的任务：“三天之内为三军置办好白旗白甲，挂孝伐吴，否则军法伺候。”两人只不过稍微辩解了两句，便被毒打了一顿。最后范疆、张达忍无可忍，把心一横，趁着张飞醉酒沉睡之时，将他刺杀，然后带着张飞的首级，投奔东吴而去。

There was also the deadliest time when he heard that Guan Yu was killed. He was so angry that he was so eager to revenge that he assigned an impossible task to his two subordinates, Fan Jiang and Zhang Da: "Get the white flag and white armor for the three armies in three days, and then go to war against Wu, or the military law will serve them." The two men just defended a little and were beaten up. At last, Fan Jiang and Zhang Da could not bear it. They stabbed Zhang Fei while he was drunk and asleep. Then they took Zhang Fei's head and went to the Eastern Wu.

盖世英雄之姿，却用这种窝囊的方式结束。

The heroic gesture of the world ended in this cowardly way.

胡适说过：“世间最可恶的事，莫过于一张生气的脸；世间最下流的事，莫过于把生气的脸摆给旁人看，这比打骂更难受。”

Hu Shi said: "The most disgusting thing in the world is an angry face; the most nasty thing in the world is to show an angry face to others, which is more painful than beating and scolding."

没有人天生就懂得控制情绪，真正有智慧的人都懂得时刻提醒自己不要栽在坏情绪中。

No one is born to know how to control emotions, and truly intelligent people know how to remind themselves not to fall into bad emotions at all times.

生气，不如争气。愚蠢的人只会生气，聪明的人，争气而不生气。一个人的好脾气，才是他一生的福气。

Better be angry than be angry. Fools are only angry, but wise people are not angry. A person's good temper is the blessing of his life.

金庸说，历史上的事件和人物，要放在当时的历史环境中去看。政治观点、社会上的流行理念时时变迁，人性却变动极少。

Jin Yong said that events and figures in history should be viewed in the historical environment at that time. Political views and popular ideas in society change from time to time, but human nature changes very little.

《三国演义》写的是历史，但揭示的人性，在今天仍然意义不减。

The Romance of the Three Kingdoms is about history, but the human nature it reveals is still of great significance today.

可以这么说，它是大人的“生活启示录”，也是孩子的“人生教科书”。读懂三国中的故事和人性，使我们的人生越走越远，越走越宽。

It can be said that it is a "life revelation" for adults and a "life textbook" for children. Understanding the stories and human nature in the Three Kingdoms will make our life go farther and wider.