用最温柔的姿态读懂爱情

在王尔德慵懒的字里行间，用最温柔的姿态读懂爱情

Oscar Wilde 奥斯卡 · 王尔德，十九世纪英国唯美主义艺术运动的倡导者，他是一个浪漫的男人，爱美也风流，他装扮惹眼、谈吐机智、特立独行，有人因此他着迷，但也有更多人对他冷嘲热讽。

曾经因为“同性恋”被告上法庭、历经长久的审判，但他坚持以独特美感与洒脱的人生观横行天下，不为任何既定框架屈服，外人眼中的放荡不羁，却是最看透人性与爱情的人。王尔德用最浪漫华丽的文字，写下生命中的开过的每朵花、经过的每阵风，在他慵懒的字里行间里，用温柔的姿态读懂人生真理。

#1

当爱情走到尽头，软弱者哭个不停，有效率的马上去寻找下一个目标，而聪明的早就预备了下一个。

When a love comes to an end, weaklings cry, efficient ones instantly find another love and wise already had one in reserve.

#2

我喜欢有未来的男人和有过去的女人。

I like men who have a future and women who have a past.

#3

男女之间不可能存在友谊，有的只是爱恨情仇。

Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.

#4

对富有的单身汉应该客以重税。让某些人比其他人更快乐是不公平的。

Rich bachelors should be heavily taxed. It is not fair that some men should be happier than others.

#5

女人是用来被爱的，不是用来被理解的。

Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood.

#6

如果一个女人不能让她犯的错误变得迷人，她就只是一个雌性动物。

“If a woman can’t make her mistakes charming, she is only a female.”

#7

爱，始于自我欺骗，终于欺骗他人。这就是所谓的浪漫。

When one is in love, one always begins by deceiveing one’s self, and one always ends by deceiving others. That is what would calls a romance.