三月流焱：要理解生活，但要生活好，需要往后看，必须向前看！

所求非所得未必是遗憾，或许会以另一种方式得以圆满。

What you want is not necessarily a regret, but may be fulfilled in another way.

人要在可控的范围内活的谨慎，在不可控的范围内学会释怀，也就是降低我们的期望值，这样幸福感才会更高。

People should live cautiously within the controllable range, and learn to relax within the uncontrollable range, which is to reduce our expectations, so that our sense of happiness will be higher.

在这个尴尬的年纪，浑浑噩噩又一年，好像什么都来得及，好像什么都来不及，好像不该却又只能这样。

At this awkward age, I have been muddled for another year. It seems that I have time for everything. It seems that I have no time for anything. It seems that I should not, but I can only.

要理解生活，但要生活好，需要往后看，必须向前看！

To understand life, but to live well, we need to look back and look forward!

总有人四处漂泊又偏爱回家，岁末将至，不管你走多远，生活再难，总有人等你回家。

There are always people who wander around and prefer to go home. The end of the year is approaching. No matter how far you go and how hard life is, there will always be someone waiting for you to go home.

不要让未来的你，讨厌现在的自己。要努力变成自己喜欢的那个更好的自己。与其祈求生活平淡点，还不如自己强大点。

Don't let the future you hate the present yourself. Try to become the better person you like. It is better to be strong than to pray for a flat life.