人生无完美，缺憾亦是美

凡事有度，月满则亏，水满则溢。话不可以说尽，要把握分寸，事不可以做绝，要留有余地。

Everything has a degree, the moon is full, the water is full, the water is overflowing. You can't say everything, you must grasp the proportions, you can't do everything, you have to leave room for it。

人生无完美，缺憾亦是美。优雅的人生，是阅尽世事的坦然，是沧桑饱尝的睿智，是过尽千帆的淡泊。

There is no perfection in life, and flaws are also beautiful. An elegant life is the calmness of reading all the world, the wisdom of tasting the vicissitudes, and the indifference of passing through thousands of sails。

人生本来就不容易，生命本来就不太长，不必为难自己，追求过多，不必作践自己，伤害自己。懂得珍惜身边的幸福，学会欣赏自己的拥有。背不动的就放下，伤不起的就看淡，想不通的就丢开，恨不过的就抚平。

Life is not easy, life is not too long, there is no need to embarrass yourself, pursue too much, do not have to violate yourself, hurt yourself. Know how to cherish the happiness around you and learn to appreciate what you have. If you can't move your back, you will put it down, if you can't afford it, you will look down on it, if you can't figure it out, you will throw it away, and if you can't hate it, you will smooth it out。